Monday, March 30, 2009

settling for less.

i've met sooo many females that have always settle for less. why? smh .. i have no clue but why is at a national epidemic of the young adullt female to always settle for less. i never understood that and i dnt think i ever will. i know what im capable of & i know what im worth .. so why are you settling for barely mediocre. i guess its something i .will always want to undrstand but will never get becuase people will always do what they want right? lol right. in society now days, i think half are the people i speak to are in this same categorie. i feel whoever a person with reflects who you are intially & if that person is pure jerk & barely maintaining then what does that say about you? that your just a follower yourself? or are you trying to teach them something becuase ive been there and done that & trying to help someone who doesnt want help is like,,asking a homeless person for a dollar. not gonna HAPPEN !! ive learned at a young age to just keep my mouth shut & if asked then your damn right im gnna say what i have to say. lol but i mean as repeated in the long run, your going to do what you want to do right? i knw you wont catch me with no dumbass, believe that. been there done that,, didnt go anywhere but down. srry. =)

6 comments:

Penelope...! said...

yh totally feel u on the whole minding your business shit...cus dts wen deyl say u said...n it becums a whole diff p.

xo

Kimberly said...

Girl I am right with you on this one! I REFUSE to settle for less. I absolutely REFUSE! When you settle for less you tend to wonder what it'll be like with another -- which leads to either (a) regrets, (b) cheating, and/or (c) making an attempt to change the person you settle for to make them into the person you really want. Why put yourself through all this work when you can just have standards and get someone who is super close to reaching them =). I second this post,

Kimberly M.

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Unbreakable said...

Well no one should settle for lees what should happen is compromise,you will net get all of what you want in one person, so either you will have to go for the cute guy who has no education or the not so cute one with education and a sound financial background.

Max Gibson said...

From a males perspective. Do not settle on us. Wait for one of us to make you smile when we're not around.

Max Gibson
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